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What my clothes say about me is that I have very little interest in fashion, yet nothing could be further from the truth! Long-standing issues with body image have made it difficult for me to indulge my interest but I admire it as an art form, the skill it requires to make, and even seeing a person walking down the street wearing something that suits them perfectly.

In recent years I've seen the David Bowie exhibition at the V&A which I mention in an upcoming piece on the Thin White Duke, so it was nice to see the Starman clip here. It was the McQueen outfits that stood out for me. The tailoring! The V&A also had a Grace Kelly exhibition which we saw by chance having gone to see some Raphael cartoons and got there a bit too early! The vintage dresses were - as you can imagine - a sight for sore eyes. I enjoyed a Mary Quant exhibition at the V&A which was shown around the same time as one on Dior. Friends told me how amazing the Dior one was and I can well imagine - the queues for it when we went to see Quant were long. There was less interest in Quant but that was the one I had wanted to see : she has always been a style icon for me and I thought her designs really were revolutionary. We also saw a small number of Vivienne Westwood creations at an exhibition in Southport once. She was one of the greats.

Last year I wrote an article on Isabella Blow. I'll just provide the link for you here Kate. She was a legend in the industry!

https://open.substack.com/pub/juliadpickering/p/mixed-media-12isabella-blow?r=1hm9gb&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web

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Love this, Kate! I am not a fashionista either, and I always envy those people who seem to have an innate sense of style - which I think is slightly different to fashion, in that it is the way they wear clothes which sets them apart. But your opening around identity is what interests me. I have been thinking about this a lot lately (probably more than is warranted, frankly!) But I think the word 'transitions' here is key. I know that I have moved through several transitions in my lifetime of clothes-wearing and styling (as we all do) and I have been playing around with this in the past year or so as I hit 50. When I was a new mother, for example, I had to adapt my former professional wardrobe to jeans and t-shirts, but I was always concerned with not adopting that 'mumsy' look. When I ran an arts business, I was constantly covered in paint and clay dust and so wore jeans and t-shirts all the time for work, teaming these with more 'boho' headbands and scarves, which seemed to fit the vibe then. When I returned to work in an office part-time, I notched it up to a bit more professional, of course, and now that I work between an office and home as a writer, what I have found is that I feel the need to still wear smart-ish clothing on writing days, albeit a bit dressed down, as it makes me feel I am taking my writing more seriously. Probably silly! But I really think that far from frivolous, what we dress ourselves in (call it fashion or not) affects the way we feel about our roles and our self-esteem in general. I know that as I am 'transitioning' into a new phase of life atm, I have swapped out some of my older clothes for ones I feel reflect where I want to head next! Thank you for another thought provoking post - I look forward to the rest of the series :)

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