What a great reflection. This is possibly true for many of us, I think? Although at times of transition, I guess I still spend a little more time on the clothing once again as a reflection of the changes (as I mention in the embedded “Modern Women” article - work, maternity, etc.).
I recall many outings to Urban Outfitters (and the vintag…
What a great reflection. This is possibly true for many of us, I think? Although at times of transition, I guess I still spend a little more time on the clothing once again as a reflection of the changes (as I mention in the embedded “Modern Women” article - work, maternity, etc.).
I recall many outings to Urban Outfitters (and the vintage bargain basement) as well as other exciting Cambridge (MA) destinations in my teen years that lasted HOURS. Now, when I go to Urban, I know what I want a lot more quickly and possibly have less ambling time on my hands. It’s also great to have those gifted items — something somebody who cares for you imagines as ‘very you’. My husband also does this occasionally and although sometimes I’m not sure about said item at first, I tend to warm into it.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and all the kind words!
I think time has got a lot to do with it. My relationship with time is so fraught. Sometimes I wear the same outfit for days because it's comfortable and I have no space in my brain to think of anything else. I love how my wife wears something different and interesting every day, gets 'properly' dressed, and I wish I felt like I had capacity to do that.
It's so different for me working from home now. I try to wear something put together for school drop off, but occasionally it's running gear -- I simply pretend I'm on my way for a jog. And there is always the denim jumpsuit. Occasionally, I get freaked out by not being a 'part of society' if I haven't put myself together for public spaces. I see this in contrast to my husband as well. More often, though, I find it freeing to be able to code switch at will. I think it depends how I'm feeling about my writing on that particular day!
Yes, I know what you mean about being put together for public spaces. What motivates me most to put any thought into my outfit is if I know I'm going to be actively looked at - i.e. if I'm going to a meeting or seeing friends or teaching (or if I'm going to see my mother). Otherwise it's just what's comfortable, clean, and in my sight line. Sometimes I feel bad for my wife that she mostly sees me wearing a t-shirt and track pants again.
The exhibit was in 2011 so I’m mostly recalling the presentation in the installation of his gothic gowns and his exotic flowing gown creations which stood out the most. The exhibit spanned his post graduate career until his last runway show in 2010. I remember attendees just gaping in awe. If you google SAVAGE McQueen exhibit at the Met and V&A there is a trove of photo’s and articles that my memory and writing skills can not do it justice.
What a great reflection. This is possibly true for many of us, I think? Although at times of transition, I guess I still spend a little more time on the clothing once again as a reflection of the changes (as I mention in the embedded “Modern Women” article - work, maternity, etc.).
I recall many outings to Urban Outfitters (and the vintage bargain basement) as well as other exciting Cambridge (MA) destinations in my teen years that lasted HOURS. Now, when I go to Urban, I know what I want a lot more quickly and possibly have less ambling time on my hands. It’s also great to have those gifted items — something somebody who cares for you imagines as ‘very you’. My husband also does this occasionally and although sometimes I’m not sure about said item at first, I tend to warm into it.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and all the kind words!
I think time has got a lot to do with it. My relationship with time is so fraught. Sometimes I wear the same outfit for days because it's comfortable and I have no space in my brain to think of anything else. I love how my wife wears something different and interesting every day, gets 'properly' dressed, and I wish I felt like I had capacity to do that.
It's so different for me working from home now. I try to wear something put together for school drop off, but occasionally it's running gear -- I simply pretend I'm on my way for a jog. And there is always the denim jumpsuit. Occasionally, I get freaked out by not being a 'part of society' if I haven't put myself together for public spaces. I see this in contrast to my husband as well. More often, though, I find it freeing to be able to code switch at will. I think it depends how I'm feeling about my writing on that particular day!
Yes, I know what you mean about being put together for public spaces. What motivates me most to put any thought into my outfit is if I know I'm going to be actively looked at - i.e. if I'm going to a meeting or seeing friends or teaching (or if I'm going to see my mother). Otherwise it's just what's comfortable, clean, and in my sight line. Sometimes I feel bad for my wife that she mostly sees me wearing a t-shirt and track pants again.
The McQueen installation at the Met was breathtaking. Did you see it?
Tell us more!
The exhibit was in 2011 so I’m mostly recalling the presentation in the installation of his gothic gowns and his exotic flowing gown creations which stood out the most. The exhibit spanned his post graduate career until his last runway show in 2010. I remember attendees just gaping in awe. If you google SAVAGE McQueen exhibit at the Met and V&A there is a trove of photo’s and articles that my memory and writing skills can not do it justice.
I remember hearing a lot about it. Here's a youtube - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pg0HwLAJyV0
Thanks for sharing your memory of it!
Thank you. Will make my morning watching it!